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if, during sex, you realize that you are not going to cum, do you tell your partner?

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stressedmomma13

Asked by stressedmomma13 at 11:58 AM on Sep. 8, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Something like that. I make sure they still get off but I might suggest a new position. Or kinda squirm around moan a little louder in his ear to encourage him to finish. But I think coming right out and saying, Im not gonna cum isnt sexy and can be a turn off.
    Shani527

    Answer by Shani527 at 12:00 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • No way, I just fake it!
    A.Perry

    Answer by A.Perry at 12:00 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • No, but I think he gets the hint when i tell him to finish first, then he'll usually attempt something else to see if that will help me or not...usually it does.
    anikahaynes1

    Answer by anikahaynes1 at 12:00 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • If he's getting his then no but if he's just doing it to please me I'll tell him to stop or tell him what to do differently
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:02 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • Yes... I simply say, babe, finish up already!
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 12:03 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • yep..no sense beating a dead horse.
    dullscissors

    Answer by dullscissors at 12:04 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • yeah i do... i mean not outright but he won't finish until I do unless I say something
    elizabiza

    Answer by elizabiza at 12:04 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • Yep, I tell him we'll have another go later. If I've had a little too much wine, it's impossible.
    lovinangels

    Answer by lovinangels at 12:06 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • Yep...don't want to lie to him so I just let him know when he is done that we can stop. He doesn't care...as long as he gets his he is happy anyways!
    kristinashley24

    Answer by kristinashley24 at 12:12 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • I'll ask if he's done (when I know he is) and just say ok -it's not gonna happen then we move on with the day or night or whatever!
    I would never fake it
    charlotsomtimes

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 12:26 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

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