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if, during sex, you realize that you are not going to cum, do you tell your partner?

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Asked by stressedmomma13 at 11:58 AM on Sep. 8, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Something like that. I make sure they still get off but I might suggest a new position. Or kinda squirm around moan a little louder in his ear to encourage him to finish. But I think coming right out and saying, Im not gonna cum isnt sexy and can be a turn off.

    Answer by Shani527 at 12:00 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • No way, I just fake it!

    Answer by A.Perry at 12:00 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • No, but I think he gets the hint when i tell him to finish first, then he'll usually attempt something else to see if that will help me or not...usually it does.

    Answer by anikahaynes1 at 12:00 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • If he's getting his then no but if he's just doing it to please me I'll tell him to stop or tell him what to do differently

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:02 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • Yes... I simply say, babe, finish up already!

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 12:03 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • sense beating a dead horse.

    Answer by dullscissors at 12:04 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • yeah i do... i mean not outright but he won't finish until I do unless I say something

    Answer by elizabiza at 12:04 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • Yep, I tell him we'll have another go later. If I've had a little too much wine, it's impossible.

    Answer by lovinangels at 12:06 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • Yep...don't want to lie to him so I just let him know when he is done that we can stop. He doesn't long as he gets his he is happy anyways!

    Answer by kristinashley24 at 12:12 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • I'll ask if he's done (when I know he is) and just say ok -it's not gonna happen then we move on with the day or night or whatever!
    I would never fake it

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 12:26 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

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