how do you tell someone that you love them as a person but you don't want the relationship anymore, I think he realizes it because when he slacks I can ignore him or even be very stern with him and he make sure I have what I need. I have to ask for whatever I need he doesn't make sure on his own like he use too. I want to get married we have been together going on 4 years and all he says is we will we haven't talked or made any plans about marriage but he says we will every time.
what should I do. We are christians and no more sex before marriage. I want to do the right thing by God.