I have made the decision to place my unborn child for adoption and am talking to a family. My friend (who has 4 kids she can't afford) loves to tell me how she could never do that, how I'll regret it for the rest of my life, etc etc etc. I told her it wasn't hard, because I didn't see this second baby as "my child" but instead as someone else's child who I am taking care of until birth (kind of like a landlord). She says that's a messed up way to think, I think it's perfectly accurate. Anything wrong with this? I don't feel the same way with this pregnancy as I did with my daughter, I felt like she was mine from the very beginning.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:06 PM on Sep. 8, 2010 in Adoption
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Answer by Roadfamily6now at 9:00 PM on Sep. 8, 2010
if that home is not with you. You provide for each child what you think you can manage at this time. If you have reason to believe that at this time it is in the best interest of you, this child, and your other to child to consider placing your unborn child with another family - then no one can really truly be in judgement. People will judge but it doesn't mean they are right to.
Answer by frogdawg at 9:15 PM on Sep. 8, 2010
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