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anyone been or know a surrogate mother?

I have been considering becoming a surrogate mother. I have 1 child and just worry it will be hard to give away the baby afterwards. Or it will make me want another.

Anyone been through this?

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Asked by sassy_brizzy at 4:47 PM on Sep. 8, 2010 in Trying to Conceive

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  • i have a friend who carried twins for someone made pretty good money she said it wasn't that hard to give them away she just refussed to hold them or anything never thought of them as hers.

    Answer by phillipsmommie at 5:20 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • Oh ok, Thank you. That is helpful!

    Comment by sassy_brizzy (original poster) at 9:08 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • I think I would do it if I didn't have to worry about any bills, and a check to go with it would be nice but if I did, I would have to take an ipod to the drs with me and not listen to the heart beat or look at the sonagram. I would expect the parents to be there and listen and take home the pictures, pay any co pays.

    Answer by DonnaPinitonya at 2:13 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • Oh and I agree not to hold or even see them at birth.

    Answer by DonnaPinitonya at 2:14 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • i have a friend on here who just had her first surrogate baby .. pm me if u wanna know who she is

    Answer by san78 at 8:12 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

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