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Is porn beneficial in a Christian marriage?

Would it help with learning sexual positions?

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Asked by 35yoamom at 5:29 PM on Sep. 8, 2010 in Relationships

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  • LOL
    just be creative, use your imagination

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 5:30 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • LOL. Not it's not beneficial. Many times it can cause more problems than is solves.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 5:32 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • I don't think so. part of the fun is learning new positions for yourself through experience. I would never consider porn beneficial.

    Answer by MamaSarah1104 at 5:32 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • I think if both people are curious/interested, why not give it a shot? For some couples, it's actually a turn-on. Of course, as with everything else, it should be a consensual thing, if one partner finds it offensive for any reason, it can only cause trouble.

    Answer by Anouck at 5:32 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • I also think that if both people are watching it together, that it certainly can help if things are a little stagnant in the bedroom.


    Answer by samurai_chica at 5:37 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • It can be beneficial is both partners enjoy it. It all depends on the couple.

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 5:47 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • No, porn is not healthy for a marriage. You cannot have pure thoughts about your spouse and keep your heart true to him/her when you are expecting someone else to arouse you. There are a lot of things to do, such as experimenting with each other. There are also a lot of creams and oils to use to help with arousal. Keep your heart and your spouses heart true to you in bed and in their mind by keeping away from porn. Will you really be happy with your spouse's perfomance if you know they are not performing because they are looking at you?

    Answer by GodMom222 at 5:51 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • no, you can look up sexual positions on youtube that are g rated, stick figures and the such with out loosing your moral standards. also in porn they don't really do any new positions. it's always the same. fat ugly guy doing blonde with big tits and he squeezes her tits and moans while they show his cock going in and out. it's boring if you ask me. porn can really hurt a marriage.

    Answer by melody77 at 6:46 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • haha.... I think watching porn would be fine.!!! If you guys both agree to watch it or don't care if the other watches...WHY NOT?!?! Just because you watch porn does not mean you are going to cheat!! and EVERYBODY has "inpure" thoughts...Go for it girl!

    Answer by BradensMom1026 at 6:51 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • Well it depends on your views of being a Christian.. Some Christians are 100% against any & all porn related material. while others think its OK..
    Personally if you just want to try new positions -- get creative! The best positions are the ones you personalize with your partner cause every person is made different so what feels good to me, may not feel good for you!
    Buy a "position book" you can find them at Barnes & Noble. online. or in adult stores..
    There are books out there that are not graphic, they use drawings or other images to show you and its not very graphic or even pornographic..

    Answer by MommaTasha1003 at 7:08 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

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