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Do you let your teenagers have people spend the night on school nights?

I allow people over on special occasions, like parents out of town. I let my daughter stay at others house only if we have an emergency. What about you?

 
mandynjohnsmom

Asked by mandynjohnsmom at 7:57 PM on Sep. 8, 2010 in Teens (13-17)

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Answers (15)
  • My Mom was always lenient with us. As long as she knew where we were and had a number to reach us, she was cool with whatever. But at the same time, as kids we literally didn't have any reason to hide anything from her. I can't remember ever keeping anything from her so maybe that's why.
    Glamourina

    Answer by Glamourina at 7:58 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • We don't allow people to stay over/our daughter to stay somewhere unless their is an emergency as you mentioned.
    russianitk

    Answer by russianitk at 8:23 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • No sleep overs on school nights. I have a hard enough time getting my SS up for school having him and a friend they would stay up half the night they would never get there butts up for school. If it does ever have to happen if a parent is out of town or something then that would be different.
    raemommy

    Answer by raemommy at 8:02 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • we didn't allow sleep overs on weeknights unless for an emergency like you mentioned
    elizabr

    Answer by elizabr at 8:12 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • No "fun" sleep overs on school nights. We have had a girl stay with us whose mom was having some emotional issues and that was no problem. Basically, the kids know they can come to us with anything and we are there for them - and their friends - if they need us.

    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 9:58 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • Not a school night, unless it was an emergency.
    QandA

    Answer by QandA at 8:36 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • Not unless there are extenuating circumstances.
    twinsplus2more

    Answer by twinsplus2more at 9:25 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • Nope. Honestly I don't even like people over here on school days. It just throws off my routine and creates extra mess and stress for me.
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 11:43 PM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • No.
    FootballMom85

    Answer by FootballMom85 at 6:45 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • No sleepovers on school nights unless the friend had a family emergency. I also don't even like friends over on school days. My daughter is involved in so many activities there is not much time for friends on school days.
    jcm62497

    Answer by jcm62497 at 8:11 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

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