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Have you ever asked a man out, and if so have you ever been turned down?

 
thismamacooks

Asked by thismamacooks at 12:30 AM on Sep. 9, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I have really asked a man out beacuse he would not stop looking at me for the longest time. I waslked right up to him and grabbed him by the shoulders and Said.. " do you want to take me out or what. if not, quit looking at me" . SO he did ask me out.. Then i married him a few years later. But no i have not been turned down. The first one was the only one i asked..
    Airforce3mom

    Answer by Airforce3mom at 12:39 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • Well yeah! You can't appreciate them saying yes until you get turned down! Over a lifetime I've been turned down a lot. It isn't really rejection as much as it's letting you know what men to exclude from your sights! If one says no then move on to a better match for you. It's all good! So many men, so little time. Don't waste time worrying about a "no" when there are so many "yes" men waiting!
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:43 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • No, therefore no lol.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:32 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • Yes I have done the asking, and no have never been turned down. Now, i have been turned down for something like a dance or buying someone a drink, but not when I have actually asked a guy to go out someplace. Then again I havent done it alot. I think tho it was their loss. :) lol
    Bearsjen

    Answer by Bearsjen at 12:33 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • i've asked women out and no i wasn't tuned down
    aliishott2

    Answer by aliishott2 at 12:40 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • I asked one man out and he accepted. I married him 3 years later. I think he would be upset if I was still asking men out. So, I stopped after he said yes. LOL
    babyboyzz

    Answer by babyboyzz at 12:43 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • I have and never been turned down. Ask but do not expect a yes and you will be surprised at the answer you will get (YES). If he turns you down, then ask someone else. If he really cannot go out and he likes you , he will at least know you would go out with him if he asked you.
    AdrianaS

    Answer by AdrianaS at 2:41 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • Absolutely. I've been told "No way, you're too fat!" and "Ummm, I don't think my boyfriend would like that." and "Maybe, if I was drunk enough." and simply "BWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!"
    Men suck.
    Fistandantalus

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 7:21 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • Sadly, yes I have asked and have been turned downed. But, I have also been asked and turned them down too. It's all a part of the game we call LOVE! admckenzie said it best, "Don't waste time worrying about a "no" when there are so many "yes" men waiting!" 

    Ks_mom94

    Answer by Ks_mom94 at 12:46 AM on Sep. 11, 2010

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