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Would you invite your SK to your child's 1st birthday if they lived multiple states away?

And you know their BM will NOT let them attend??

 
dragonlady320

Asked by dragonlady320 at 9:21 AM on Sep. 9, 2010 in Babies (0-12 months)

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Answers (11)
  • I would still send them an invite because it might make them happy to get the mail. What does it hurt?
    AmeliasMommy206

    Answer by AmeliasMommy206 at 9:23 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • Yes, as a formality. How would you feel if you never got invited to a family member's birthday party? Even if they can't attend, thinking you didn't think of them is worse than not being able to come. GL.
    BisketLiss

    Answer by BisketLiss at 9:23 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • Whats SK? lol
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 9:24 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • I think I would, just so they still feel apart of the family.. If BM lets them come or not is up to her but at least the child knows they were invited and thought about..
    midnightmoma

    Answer by midnightmoma at 9:25 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • I agree with everyone else, send the invite anyway.
    thatgirl70

    Answer by thatgirl70 at 9:26 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • Yes. They need to feel included.
    Courtney610

    Answer by Courtney610 at 9:26 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • Yes, so they'll feel that you are thinking about them. I'd also include a nice chatty note.
    Bmat

    Answer by Bmat at 9:26 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • I just don't want to hurt her feelings. : ( I don't want it to be like, OH look what you're missing.
    dragonlady320

    Comment by dragonlady320 (original poster) at 9:30 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • Yes because its the right thang to do.
    mekarevell

    Answer by mekarevell at 10:38 AM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • I always invite out of state aunts/uncles because I want them to feel included even though we know they are not coming.
    khedy

    Answer by khedy at 12:32 PM on Sep. 9, 2010

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