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how can i help

ok my best friend is datein this guy they have only been together 8 mon. and he has already cheated on her and now is havein a baby by the girl he cheated with and she is startin all kinds of drama how do i help her see the truth and how she dont need to be with him? and that she is too good for him and can do way better?

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Runt420

Asked by Runt420 at 9:44 PM on Sep. 9, 2010 in Relationships

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  • honestly there is nothing u can do but be a friend cause she goin to need u trully when her house of cards fall..if he didnt use protection an got some else pregnant then he doesnt respect her an will most likely do it again...
    make sure u have a big box of tissue..an a waterproof shirt,an a strong shoulder..
    FreeSpriT4eva

    Answer by FreeSpriT4eva at 9:47 PM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • If she knows about the cheating there is nothing else that can be done... I would tell her... You are in for a big awakening and I will be there when he dumps you...

    That may be enough to wake her up. If not when she does get dumped she knows that you are there.
    35yoamom

    Answer by 35yoamom at 9:48 PM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • "I am powerless over anyone but me !! " Sometimes we think we can save someone from themselves....... Call a spade a spade and tell her what you think. That's about all you can do. Hugs !! :-)
    LeJane

    Answer by LeJane at 9:50 PM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • She's gotta learn on her own, just be there for her when she needs you but don't talk bad about him......that will make her turn away from you and not rely on you when they break up......she won't want to hear you say "I told you so", whether you would or not she'll think that you're saying it.
    colethky

    Answer by colethky at 9:58 PM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • you can't. She'll see it when she's ready, and you just need to be there for her. Relationships like that are SOOO messy!
    shaysmommy5810

    Answer by shaysmommy5810 at 10:21 PM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • what goes around comes around he is going to get what he deserves but all you can do is be a good friend & be there for her she will need you when she realizes what a jerk her man is being to her she needs someone better then that & it will happen if she want it fo be
    Ricanmami1

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 11:32 PM on Sep. 9, 2010

  • Does she know that he's been cheating? If not, somebody needs to tell her. She also needs to know that the other woman is going to cause problems. She needs to get out of that relationship fast without looking behind.
    amessageofhope

    Answer by amessageofhope at 12:54 AM on Sep. 10, 2010

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