my husband has no respect for me! he doesnt let me know what he is doing or when he will be home but he will freak out if im a half hour late! i went to the store a couple days ago and got stuck at a train. it took me 45 minutes to go to the store and home....should have been 20 minutes and he got mad. yet hes supposed to be at his friends house and goes to the bar instead and leaves his phone at his friends! im pregnant and we have kid!he has the car! what if i had an emergencyi couldnt get ahold of him for 2 hours. but i have to call him at work to say im going to my sisters house cause if he comes home for lunch while im gone hes mad at me! im so sick of it and im sick of talking to him about it! gggrrrrrrr!!!!!what do you think i should do?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:39 PM on Sep. 9, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by noahsmommy12908 at 11:42 PM on Sep. 9, 2010
He is very controlling. You have to ask his permission to go to your sisters? You are an adult and should be able to go where you want when you want. You need to sit down and talk this out. Get some boundaries and rules out for the both of you. He needs to remember that he is a father and a husband first and that comes before all play. He should also give you some slack and appreciation. You are not his door greeter, you are his wife, and you have to be in this at least 50/50. He needs to know this. Tell him that this is how the family has to work, or the relationship will not work out. (If you think about it, no relationship can live with a dominant master. You are a human, not a dog.) He either needs to step up or step out. I know this may sound harsh and over board, but it's honesty.
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