My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11 months tomorrow. He told me last month that he thought our relationship was stagnant, and had been since roughly May, when the military, which he was trying to re-enlist in at the time, denied him. This was his dream job, and he was devastated when they told him no. He works at a retail job that he hates and was promoted roughly 2 1/2 months ago, and has been even more stressed than he was prior to the promotion. He isn't as affectionate either because he is overwhelmed. But he told me not to worry about the fact that we were stagnant (he said he wasn't sure if we still were), because 11 months isn't that long to be in a relationship, and that only being stagnant for a couple of months isn't a bad thing. Do you think I should not worry about this?Answer Question
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