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What kind of relationship do you have?

When you were dating, did your relationship move quickly or slowly? Which pace did you prefer?

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countrygirl1987

Asked by countrygirl1987 at 12:39 AM on Sep. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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  • When I was dating my husband, it moved very quickly. The L word came out after just three days; we were married one year and two weeks after we met, it would have been sooner but he was in Iraq for six months. I love him!
    SarahLeeMorgan

    Answer by SarahLeeMorgan at 12:41 AM on Sep. 10, 2010

  • ha we dated for two weeks as sophmores on and off seeing eachother till senior yr met again moved to another state together two months later engaged then prego LOL
    anfisasmommy

    Answer by anfisasmommy at 12:49 AM on Sep. 10, 2010

  • Promise ring in 1 month. Proposed 4 months later, then we got married 10 months after that. Not sure what you'd call that.

    SylviaNCali

    Answer by SylviaNCali at 12:50 AM on Sep. 10, 2010

  • we were living together after 6 months. he propesed 5 months after that, and we married about 10 months he proposed. we planned on living together, and he planned on the proposel, but we didnt plan to get married in 10 months. its a cute story. we've been married for going on 2 years, and we're just now ttc.
    shoot4thestars

    Answer by shoot4thestars at 1:00 AM on Sep. 10, 2010

  • It was an average wait..We started dating when I was 15..got a promise ring at 16..engagement ring at 17..married at 18. Fresh out of high school. lol.
    SparklingHope

    Answer by SparklingHope at 1:02 AM on Sep. 10, 2010

  • Really quick.
    lovinangels

    Answer by lovinangels at 1:02 AM on Sep. 10, 2010

  • Slow, then fast, then slow.
    MythicMMM

    Answer by MythicMMM at 1:05 AM on Sep. 10, 2010

  • I would kill my kids if they did this!! but:

    He told me he was going to marry me 2 weeks after we met. we moved in together 2 months after we met, and got married 1 year after we met.
    ohwrite

    Answer by ohwrite at 1:10 AM on Sep. 10, 2010

  • Our relationship moved very quickly. We were married just three months after we committed to each other. We had dated off and on in school and then went separate ways. Once we reconnected, things went quick.
    hsmominky

    Answer by hsmominky at 1:20 AM on Sep. 10, 2010

  • Very very quick. I moved in after about 2 months. We got married after 6 months (we skipped the proposal. i think we had an unspoken agreement after only a few weeks), & had our first daughter after just over a year of being together. i look back on it and think "WTH was i thinking moving so fast!!" but we've been married over 5 years & our marriage gets stronger & happier by the day. but i'm still going crazy over how fast our relationship went. i pray to God my kids are smarter than me & will wait at least 3 years before getting married... =I
    rAbella

    Answer by rAbella at 1:21 AM on Sep. 10, 2010

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