I know men that are in prison or have been. Some of them return to outside life and everything works out. Others go back to their old life and friends because they can't get a decent job with a record. They loose hope. They give up & return to prison because they violated their perole. Question is: Is he marrying you to take care of him? Does he have a plan to keep him from returning to his past? If he's into drugs, will you be able to be strong enough to not do them yourself? Is this his first time in? Have you visited him inside? Have you had anyone check him out? I say this because many of them keep stuff from you and only paint a pretty picture until they have you hook, line, and sinker. If you do decide to marry him. I'd wait a year to see how things are going to pan out. If you are the one landing up doing all the work, its a red flag that he's just useing you for the money. I hope this isn't the case. Walk slowly!
at 3:51 AM on Sep. 10, 2010