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what do i do about emotions ?

so my baby daddy is supposedly getting married to another girl they have only been together for two months and she has a son already and i am afraid he wont take care of his own child to take care of hers

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ScarsMommy

Asked by ScarsMommy at 10:44 PM on Sep. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I have no idea what you do with the emotions. But make sure all the legalities are met... do your paperwork.

    sahlady

    Answer by sahlady at 10:50 PM on Sep. 10, 2010

  • You mean you're child's father? There's not alot you can do about things. You chose to have a child with the man and not stay together, so at some point you have to deal with every thing that goes with it. Don't borrow trouble from tomorrow. If you have worries about how he will take care of your child, talk to him. we don't know him, his history or his situation...so we can't answer your question.
    hobbitswife04

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 11:16 PM on Sep. 10, 2010

  • yeah i would make sure i file for child support & that he is always involved in your child life & im sorry to hear what your going threw
    Ricanmami1

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 11:21 PM on Sep. 10, 2010

  • So sorry, I'm sure that's a heartache for you. Try to stay on good terms and it may work out better than doing it thru battles. Just let him know you'd like him to stay in your child's life even thou your not. Try not to get on the new G/F subject if you can , just keep a friendly Daddy son relationship FOR your SON's sake. He' needs to be the main concern at this point. Somewhere out there, there is a better man for you, GOD always has a plan.
    MyAngel003

    Answer by MyAngel003 at 11:33 PM on Sep. 10, 2010

  • make sure you get everything in black and white on court paperwork! Its always better to safe than sorry. Your not being a mean person you are being a good mother and protecting your child and if he steps up and always does the right thing then no worries
    1stimeMomover30

    Answer by 1stimeMomover30 at 1:10 AM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • okay so u all are right my sons dad is an abusive mean cruel person he is also young though i guess i dont rgret my child i just regret who i had him with u know
    ScarsMommy

    Comment by ScarsMommy (original poster) at 3:07 AM on Sep. 11, 2010

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