Ok so the Situation is my husband doesnt really take part in diciplining the kids (expecially his from a prior relationship) but when i talk to him about it he says ok i will do that but NEVER does so i end re-enforcing the house rules on HIS kid and ALWAYS being the bad guy im so fed up i dont know what to do Im tired of talking to him about it. Its like he says what he knows i want to hear but doesnt actually mean anything that comes out of his mouth! Grrr! I even have to enforece watching his language around the kids because he doesnt! What would you do if it just didnt seem like your husband cared about setting a good example for the kids and never did anything with your kid but all sorts of things with his kid?Answer Question
Answer by louise2 at 11:24 AM on Sep. 11, 2010
Answer by Maureenmich at 11:27 AM on Sep. 11, 2010
You can't make someone change, does he have an answer as to why he favors one kid over another? Maybe he feels guilty about not being with his mom, or maybe he is just better around older kids. Does the older child spend time with his bio mom and dads trying to makeup for the time he is gone? A
sk your DH to think about these questions and ask him to seriously think about what he is doing. In the end you can't change him, sorry but you have to find away to work around him if he doesn't budge.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 5:14 PM on Sep. 11, 2010
Answer by louise2 at 7:49 PM on Sep. 11, 2010
Answer by JOCKEYP2PMOM at 6:57 AM on Sep. 12, 2010