I wouldn't use a picture of the wreckage after a fatal car crash to memorialize the death of someone lost in that crash. I wouldn't use a picture of the burned remains of a house to memorialize someone who died in a fire. I absolutely wouldn't use a picture of a crime scene, complete with blood spatter, to memorialize someone who was murdered. Why the fuck are people using a pictures of a plane hitting the towers and the explosion around it to memorialize 9/11 on their FB and elsewhere?????Answer Question
Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 11:53 AM on Sep. 11, 2010
Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 11:53 AM on Sep. 11, 2010
Answer by drdavenport at 11:54 AM on Sep. 11, 2010
Answer by Kword at 11:55 AM on Sep. 11, 2010
Answer by tiredmomfor2 at 12:00 PM on Sep. 11, 2010
Answer by lovinangels at 12:02 PM on Sep. 11, 2010
IDK. Sometimes people mourn in ways that I wouldn't choose to, but who am I to say that they are doing it wrong? Just like some people choose to have an open casket at a funeral. I wouldn't choose to do that and I don't view bodies at a funeral. I don't find that it helps me let go, it just feels gruesome to me.
Personally, I don't need video footage or pictures of that day to remind me of the heartache I felt for those that perished in such a terrifying way. I don't need to be reminded to feel for the families that may or may not ever get closure. Death is a funny thing (not 'ha ha' funny) and we all deal with it in our own way.
Answer by QuinnMae at 12:06 PM on Sep. 11, 2010
Answer by SWEETPEAS3MOM at 12:09 PM on Sep. 11, 2010