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Are We Too Old?

My dh an I were debating on weather we wanted to adopt or not. We are trying to learn more about it,, but before we put in too much time and effort into it. I was wondering if we are too old. I am 43 and he is 46.

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Asked by Bugbait at 1:41 PM on Sep. 11, 2010 in Adoption

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  • No, I don't think.

    Answer by musicmom08 at 1:42 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • Not in my opinion. If you have the means and love for a child, go for it! There are so many kids that need a loving home!

    Answer by Cindy18 at 1:42 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • i dont think that is too old and i dont believe the adoption cousilers will either.

    Answer by SunShineMoMM at 1:42 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • Nope!

    Answer by Morgs7531642 at 1:42 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • ^^^ forgot to add a so at the end ^^^ he eh


    Answer by musicmom08 at 1:43 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • not to old not at all i think what you guys want to do is great

    Answer by cnoble927 at 1:47 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • No you never to old to do something like that. I want to do that as well one day but not any time soon.

    Answer by sguy1983 at 1:47 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • No!!! u r not old at all!!! Go for it!!!! as long as u want to love a child and desire one,go for it. U won't regret it. Please let me know what u decide. A child adds so much and really makes a couple a family. good luck to u.

    Answer by dancer at 1:48 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • No you're not too old! My children are 7, 6, 8 months and we are expecting in January. I am only 34 but dh is 43. I think you are fine!

    Answer by MelRosen at 1:52 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • Absolutely not too old!! My brother is 45 and just had his first child with his wife a year ago. If that is what u both want,... I say go for it!! Good luck to you !!

    Answer by Mariejen at 1:59 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

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