my first husband was abusive. i can honestly say that i hate him. my daughter from him looks so much like him and i find myself kind of pushing her away. i dont realize it untill after but i feel so bad! i love my daughter and i know she didnt do anything wrong i just hate him so much that when i see so much of him in her it makes me kindof feel like hes there. i hate myself for this and cant figure out how to make it change?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:44 PM on Sep. 11, 2010 in General Parenting
Answer by NannyB. at 2:51 PM on Sep. 11, 2010
Answer by Misteh at 2:47 PM on Sep. 11, 2010
You need counselling. Don't try to talk yourself out of it, your daughter deserves the time you put in with a counselor. Good Luck, I hope things improve, it's hard to deal with past abuse.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 2:47 PM on Sep. 11, 2010
I agree with going to see a counselor.
Answer by PoisonousBlonde at 2:49 PM on Sep. 11, 2010
Answer by Hazelnutkin at 2:52 PM on Sep. 11, 2010
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Answer by evelynolivesmom at 2:46 PM on Sep. 11, 2010