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Do you ever worry that your SO still has feelings for a past love?

I don't worry about Jim's first wife but sometimes I wonder if I wasn't around if he'd get back together with his old girlfriend. They were together for five years. Things have changed a lot since they broke up. Jim has his kids now and her kids are grown and gone. The house is paid for. Etc.


Asked by L.A.F.outloud at 8:36 PM on Sep. 11, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I don't think that my husband would go with his "first love" (because that was the first women that he was in a serious relationship with). He's saw her a few times. She's changed and not for the better. I think that he'd go back to sleeping with any women that let him.


    Answer by elly25 at 8:40 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • why would you care about what would happen if "you weren't around?" you wouldn't be there and he could do what he wanted. i could give a crap what my hubby will do after i'm dead...... i'll be dead lmao

    Answer by princessbeth79 at 8:40 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • What if ? Don't worry. If he wants to go he will. In that case forget him. If he stays even better. Forget about borrowed problems, worries & troubles. Live in the moment and love the life you have, Sister!

    Answer by BluDog at 8:41 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • No I dont worry about it. We have been together for 10yrs (since 10th grade) so whatever feelings he has is of a person who no longer really exist (as u age u change alot) but its OK to still care for people in your past..
    There are a few of my ex's I was really close to & I will always care for them & hope the best for them.. But not in any way do i still think of them "that way" ... Not at all!
    And to think of "what might have been" is just that, only a thought.. doesnt mean anyone wants those "might haves" to really happen!
    I made my choice, and am ecstatically sticking to it! ;)

    Answer by MommaTasha1003 at 8:41 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • Nope.

    Answer by GinNTonic at 8:46 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • Nope, I don't. Past girlfriends didn't treat him very well. Not like he deserves to be treated, so I don't worry.

    Answer by Raine2001 at 8:46 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • yes

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:46 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • NO- i don't worry about my husband having feelings for any past Loves or worry about What if's either-

    Answer by daisyb at 8:50 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • Nope.

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 8:57 PM on Sep. 11, 2010

  • no..i always worried with my ex though..because he always tried to make me jealous

    Answer by shay1130 at 9:06 PM on Sep. 11, 2010