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I'm so angry and I don't understand how my ex husband was allowed to not pay child support..He was ordered 7 yrs ago to pay $200 and the judge based it had he worked a full time job at minimum wage. Well 7 yrs later he still chooses to work part time (if at all) and because I work full time to provide benefits for my son (I'm remarried and my husband and I own a home,cars etc) My ex filed a motion to have it lowered and the judge found it be in his favor and even said that I would have to pay him child support but the judge said I didn't have to after all. My ex's excuse was that due to the economy he can't find a full time job, this man is 6"1" and works out all the time!! I'm so disgusted and I'm really hurt that he would put his needs in front of his own son, after all these years of trying to get along with for our son's sake I feel like an a-hole and am sitting here with eggs on my face. I got to see my ex for what he isAnswer Question
Answer by gabby06 at 1:22 AM on Sep. 12, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 1:27 AM on Sep. 12, 2010
Answer by gabby06 at 1:34 AM on Sep. 12, 2010
Answer by treynlisa at 4:25 AM on Sep. 12, 2010
Wow momma he sounds like his working out has really gotten to his head. My hubby and I just went though a 2 1/2 yrs child support order to finally get it lowered cause he has 3 children 2 of them we see when ever we want. Know that his oldest just moved in with us cause of issue he had last year with school we have better schools in our area so anyways the judge finally sees that we have a child together and we have one of the three children that he is paying child support for with the two child that have the same mother we know pay nothing and the mother he had a one night stand with it went from $620 a months to $150 cause he makes minimum wage. We don't get any help from our state and both of these mothers get everything the state has to offer. We both have worked our asses off to make it work for all of the kids
The only man in this situation that has maned up is your new hubby,he is a good man &i hope you all r happy.
Answer by raemommy at 5:46 AM on Sep. 12, 2010
Answer by Zoeyis at 5:51 AM on Sep. 12, 2010
Answer by missanc at 12:21 PM on Sep. 12, 2010