So we are in therapy. Yesterday we had to share our "Dream Marriage Vision". We got through sex life, finances, careers without a hitch. Then we get to friends. I'm not at a place where I feel loved enough or ok with him running off with his friends whenever he wants. But our therapist says I not only need to let it happen but I have to be HAPPY about it! And welcome him when he gets home.
This put me in tears and I have been an anxious wreck since we left therapy. I don't want to add that b.s. to my "dream vision". It's not my dream! What the heck do i do?
I guess on a side note do your husband's have this 'need' to go hang with the guys? I'm feeling awful right now.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:33 AM on Sep. 12, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Mariejen at 9:30 AM on Sep. 12, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 8:43 AM on Sep. 12, 2010
I don't think he gave good advice at all. What if you was the one going off with your friends at all hours? I doubt he'd (hubby) be happy about that. He needs to man up and realize he chose to marry you and that alone entails a different life style. Not to say he can never go out, but he's a married man now and should be acting like one. Get a new therapist for sure.
Answer by zbee at 8:46 AM on Sep. 12, 2010
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