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Is Love and it overrrated????

everyone is getting married just to say im in love but are they really????....most of my friends in the military are married just for the benefits and some are for the marriage thats in their hearts????

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Asked by cute504dimples at 1:31 PM on Sep. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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  • yes

    Answer by rosey024 at 1:32 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • I believe in Marriage. For the good times and the bad times. For the ride of your life. For happily ever after.. We made it 30 years on the 30th.

    Answer by Angellinda at 1:37 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • I totally believe in marriage. My dh is my best friend and has been for the last 16 years. Yes we have had a rough spots but we are friends not just lovers and have made it through.


    Answer by bookworm23 at 2:52 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • No, it's not overrated. It's a sign of commitment that you don't make/have when you just live with someone. It shows a true devotion to a person and says I'm here for the long haul.

    Answer by scout_mom at 3:51 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • I don't really believe in 'love' and marriage.

    Answer by TessaHoney at 4:33 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • oh wow, marriage is so much more than just benefits in the millitary, love and forever after..

    Answer by Resatrotter at 10:44 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • I dont believe in marriage at all I mean all it is is a piece of paper

    Answer by LiLJeni at 11:08 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • Marriage is way overrated! I will never get married again! Love is not overrated.

    Answer by fairyinabubble at 11:47 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • starting to wonder about marriage thing, too many divorces these days, number are getting even higher, more on the second time around, beside being married for a long time and then you realized that you both are two different people now and don't love each other any more, love not over rated, just need enough time to find the right heart that goes with yours

    Answer by tamithy at 11:46 AM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • Is it overrated? No. Is it a lot more work then most people think? Yeah. It's not just living together with a piece of paper. Most people don't realize that what you do in a marriage not only reflects on you, it alo reflects on your spouse.

    Answer by spiritguide_23 at 9:27 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

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