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yesterday at a family cookout, I asked my SIL if she wanted to have lunch

she pretty much blew me off, now I feel silly. Has this ever happened to you? And what did you do about it

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ilovedogs1967

Asked by ilovedogs1967 at 3:55 PM on Sep. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Just ignore it, maybe she had other things to do and just didn't disclose them to you.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 3:56 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • No need to feel silly. You asked, she answered.
    aliceinalgonac

    Answer by aliceinalgonac at 3:56 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • Give her the benefit of the doubt and ask her again another time.
    Misteh

    Answer by Misteh at 3:57 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • You made yourself available to her- but for whatever reason, she isnt interested right now. Try again at the next function. If she blows you off again- then so be it- it's her loss- at least you tried. Dont take it personally.
    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 3:59 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • if i asked my SIL if she wanted to have lunch it would be because i was high on drugs. i'm sorry, this answer is pretty biased.
    sophistcatdfury

    Answer by sophistcatdfury at 4:01 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • I agree with mrsmom :)
    Memigen

    Answer by Memigen at 4:04 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

  • Is she normally rude? If not she may have just been having a bad day. Otherwise, well, you tried. I don't have much to do with any of my hubby's siblings.
    L.A.F.outloud

    Answer by L.A.F.outloud at 6:22 PM on Sep. 12, 2010

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