This doesn't apply to all men-I'm curious why "he's a man" should be an acceptable reason for DH being ridiculous. Men aren't stupid. I some times think that they prefer to appear that way so women won't expect much. They expect us to tend to every need for the kids, even when we're busy & they aren't doing a dang thing. They forget anniversaries, birthdays, holidays because "he doesn't know any better?" Why? We remember all this! If a man has been married for 10 years, chances are, he KNOWS how his wife feels about birthdays/anniversary, etc. If he doesn't put forth any effort it's because he's a jerk! Not knowing or forgetting the first year of marriage, maybe. I don't think being a man is a valid reason for forgetting important dates or giving crappy gifts even when the wife has a specific list of what she wants. I don't care if they "think differently" than we do. There is no excuse for being inconsiderate.
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