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What are some sure fire signs that your husband is cheating?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:01 PM on Sep. 13, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Finding him naked with another woman.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 2:02 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • Changes in sex life..he wants to do it more or less.. he lasts longer or shorter than normal
    Hides his phone.. or locks it
    Leaves a lot

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 2:02 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • Coming home late or not at all, deleting text messages, hiding somewhere while talking on the phone, money being spent without an explanation.

    Answer by Scuba at 2:03 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • You catch him in the act, lol

    Answer by keisha613 at 2:03 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • He brings his girlfriend home to meet the kids.

    Answer by Memigen at 2:06 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • Other than catching them in the act... I can't think of any sure fire signs.

    Cheating is such an individual thing. That happens for very individual reasons. There really isn't, in my opinion (and yes I've been cheated on), a specific go to list that is a full proof check list in regards to cheating or not. Cheating happens in so many different ways, for so many different reasons, and is done by so many different people, it's far to individual to have a blanket checklist to go by.

    People have to judge based on : Their partners, themselves, their partners actions/behaviours, their actions/behaviours, the overall true state of their relationship, any outside factors that could be influencing/having an impact on their relationship.. These are the types of things one must look at in order to get a good idea of what may be going on with their partners/in their relationship in order to make a guess about cheating.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 2:07 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • I dont think there ARE any sure fire signs. short of walking in on a booty call or something

    Answer by BlacksheepSati at 2:10 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • i think for sure the phone and the computer. and im not talking porn. im talking chat rooms and such

    Answer by americansugar80 at 2:11 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • Many times there is a change in behavior for the guy. It could be something very slight or an overhaul. Watch for secretive behaviors. Like doing things or hiding things he normally wouldn't. I've seen a few relationships where the guy was the one cheating and acusing his SO of doing the cheating.
    There are no "sure fire" signs of cheating. I think it all depends on the guy and the relationship.

    Answer by michelle121003 at 4:25 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • Keeping close tabs on his phone...always keeping it on him but you never hear it ring (he has it on vibrate or silent)...picking fights for no apparent reason so he has a reason to leave...coming home late or being gone longer than necessary (a quick run to the store takes an hour) and he always has some lame excuse...if he's not a vain man but suddenly becomes concerned with his appearance...same recurring phone number on phone records...accusing you of being a lousy wife for whatever reason (he's doing that to justify his behavior to himself) being spent without explanation, especially an increase in gas money...suddenly disconnecting from the kids and other family (he's doing that to help him 'forget' his responsibilities)...getting into trouble at work


    Answer by mizkaye at 8:10 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

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