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is having a son or daughter first better?

people have been telling me that having a daughter first is better or having a son first is better... what do you thing?


Asked by pinkdena at 3:41 PM on Sep. 13, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • I'm thinking that just having and loving your child that birth is most important. Boy or girl - doesn't matter.

    Answer by twinsplus2more at 3:47 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • my oldest is my daughter. I really don't think it matters. Does not mean that one sex is better then the other. I would not have it anyway. I have 3 kids..

    Answer by Airforce3mom at 3:42 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • I think they're crazy. Who cares? Parenting is hard,either way.

    Answer by whiteroses82 at 3:58 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • Well I only have 3 girls. =)♥

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 3:42 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • It doesn't matter, they are all so precious. I would love to have either!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Be blessed you can have any.

    Answer by SugaB at 4:08 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • I just have one child, my daughter. I don't think it really matters though. Each & every child will bring challenges & rewards regardless of their gender.

    Answer by Lo_and_Behold at 4:36 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • I don't think it matters. But we had a boy first.

    Answer by krystlbear at 5:21 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • It doesn't matter. Each child is different so no one knows for sure! I had my boys first, they were much easier than my girls, but I would've rather had my girls first because I had more energy then!

    Answer by mom2mybabes at 5:57 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • I prayed dearly for a lil girl so my 1st is my dd. For me it was a want if I had a boy then no big deal I would be the same.

    Answer by mekarevell at 9:58 AM on Sep. 14, 2010