My husband "came out" to me a couple of months ago after 11 years of marriage and two kids. I have made plans to move to my home state and continue raising my kids and he is fine with this. We will be getting a divorce within the next couple of months.
However...I told him I needed to save my money (about $1500 per month) if I'm going to be moving and starting over to have money saved to support myself and the kids. He on the other hand thinks I should pay him at least $600 a month to live here and help pay bills and the mortgage.
If I save my money, I can have close to $5000 saved before I move and completely start over...if I give him money, I would only have like $3000-$3500 saved.
What is fair? How much should I have saved?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:41 PM on Sep. 13, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Jademom07 at 4:44 PM on Sep. 13, 2010
Honestly...... I think it is very very sad that you are taking the kids away from their dad. He isnt evil he is simply gay. Fair??? Who cares about the money... is it fair for them not to see their dad?????
Answer by sahlady at 4:46 PM on Sep. 13, 2010
Answer by Caoimhe_Oona at 4:55 PM on Sep. 13, 2010
Answer by cmlkb at 4:57 PM on Sep. 13, 2010
Answer by sheloveearth at 5:11 PM on Sep. 13, 2010
Answer by ahhmericanwoman at 5:13 PM on Sep. 13, 2010