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Was divorce your idea or your husband's?

If it was a mutual decision, who brought it up first?

 
Mrs.BAT

Asked by Mrs.BAT at 7:57 PM on Sep. 13, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (8)
  • my husbands the last thing I want is a divorce
    KyliesMom5

    Answer by KyliesMom5 at 9:23 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • Mine, although the cheating idea was obviously his!
    Indyk

    Answer by Indyk at 7:58 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • Mine. I just finally allowed myself to accept the fact (event though I knew it the entire 18 years I was with him) that we were not meant to be. Wouldn't trade my kids for the world, but I should've never married him. Wasn't any easy decision though, it took me 4 years to finally do it. That was 8 years ago
    KimPippin

    Answer by KimPippin at 8:04 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • It was my idea. I finally decided enough was enough, when his verbal abuse escalated in to physical abuse.
    offrdngal

    Answer by offrdngal at 8:44 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • It was mine, after he went to DV classes he still continued to be verbally abusive, I refused to allow my son to grow up witnessing it in the home
    mochomo

    Answer by mochomo at 8:58 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • His, but I am thankful that we are divorced
    stressedmomma13

    Answer by stressedmomma13 at 9:04 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • It was my idea and I brought it up first
    noahsmommy12908

    Answer by noahsmommy12908 at 10:03 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

  • In my parents case it was both of them.
    jessesmama22

    Answer by jessesmama22 at 9:03 PM on Sep. 13, 2010

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