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Does this make me a slut?

I am sorta seeing two guys. One is just a FTF, the other is a potential, but he lives about 3 hours away.

I am not seeing them in the same day. Actually not even the same week.

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dakotaNrye

Asked by dakotaNrye at 9:12 PM on Oct. 16, 2008 in Relationships

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  • Yeah. i think so.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:13 PM on Oct. 16, 2008

  • first off, do they each know about the other?

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:13 PM on Oct. 16, 2008

  • No, it doesn't. Just... be safe :)
    Guinhyvar

    Answer by Guinhyvar at 9:15 PM on Oct. 16, 2008

  • not if you are not committed to either of them and they know it.
    mom_of_2monkeys

    Answer by mom_of_2monkeys at 9:15 PM on Oct. 16, 2008

  • If you are seeing one as a having potential to become a personal relationship then you need to stop with the other one. How would you feel if someone were doing that to you?
    Jazak

    Answer by Jazak at 9:16 PM on Oct. 16, 2008

  • Not really. :( I don't talk to either one of them all the time either. I really wouldn't claim either one to be a "boyfriend" either.
    dakotaNrye

    Answer by dakotaNrye at 9:17 PM on Oct. 16, 2008

  • IMO no. If ur not in a "RELATIONSHIP" w/ either 1, then ur not committed 2 either 1. But I agree w/ Guinhyvar & b safe
    LovingParent08

    Answer by LovingParent08 at 9:19 PM on Oct. 16, 2008

  • I know that if the potential one steps up a little bit, I would cut off the "friend"

    Thanks ladies :)

    Oh, and I am totally being safe!! In all reality, I have only slept with the "friend" once and the potential twice. This has been spread over about two months.
    dakotaNrye

    Answer by dakotaNrye at 9:19 PM on Oct. 16, 2008

  • dakota, i give you props doing that NOT anonymously lol.

    Seriously, people could have jumped down your throat hardcore....
    :)

    yay lol jk.. that was cheesy. ha
    KelsoBabeyy

    Answer by KelsoBabeyy at 9:21 PM on Oct. 16, 2008

  • Are you having sex with both of them?
    feesharose

    Answer by feesharose at 9:21 PM on Oct. 16, 2008

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