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Why is being too nice a bad thing???

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pitacc

Asked by pitacc at 2:52 PM on Sep. 14, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (9)
  • You get walked all over...
    ryanlynn

    Answer by ryanlynn at 2:53 PM on Sep. 14, 2010

  • That is true!!!!!
    dancer

    Answer by dancer at 2:54 PM on Sep. 14, 2010

  • It is only bad if you lose sight of what you want and who you are. Being someone accused of being to nice, this has happened to me. I was so busy being nice to everyone else and helping them out that I forgot to be nice to me and got walked all over. I am still a nice person, but I draw a line now. Just remember that you and your family come first. Then I think it's a Great thing!
    NHRachel

    Answer by NHRachel at 2:55 PM on Sep. 14, 2010

  • technically its actually a gift. unfortunately in a world filled with a**holes, who dont care how people are treated its overlooked. hope your situation improves :)
    americanadian25

    Answer by americanadian25 at 2:55 PM on Sep. 14, 2010

  • It's not a bad thing once a person has matured to not want the "bad boy/girl" The nice guy always finish last, but they are the ones that always finish the happiest.
    Roisin07

    Answer by Roisin07 at 2:55 PM on Sep. 14, 2010

  • It is if you are a passive person, let people walk all over you
    noahsmommy12908

    Answer by noahsmommy12908 at 3:48 PM on Sep. 14, 2010

  • Yes, agreed you get walked all over. I know from experience.
    JenDavin

    Answer by JenDavin at 7:37 PM on Sep. 14, 2010

  • Because you get used and abused. You become everyones door mat.
    QueenMomma2023

    Answer by QueenMomma2023 at 8:44 AM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • Because you get taken advantage of by some people but once this happens you learn quickly. Stay nice, be smart. GL.
    sarasmommy777

    Answer by sarasmommy777 at 9:11 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

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