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Soo there's this guy at my work I happen to have a crush on...

...he's really shy, so am I!
I'm used to the guy being the initiator!
Any ideas on what to do, what to do?!?!

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:00 AM on Oct. 17, 2008 in Just for Fun

Answers (6)
  • Does he flirt with you and act interested aswell???
    scaredmommy08

    Answer by scaredmommy08 at 12:35 AM on Oct. 17, 2008

  • Shy guys.. what a turn off!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:41 AM on Oct. 17, 2008

  • Try just starting a conversation with him, just get to know him as friends first. This may help with his shyness. I'm pretty shy too, and have never came right out and directly asked a guy out. I kind of lead them to do the asking.....you have to take it slow with shy ones.
    robinann5

    Answer by robinann5 at 1:01 AM on Oct. 17, 2008

  • first of all are u divorced? if u are then just wait for him to do the first move so u wont look all easy like a slut.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:52 AM on Oct. 17, 2008

  • hey anon...No im not divorced, i've never been married! just because i have a baby doesn't mean i have to get married!

    oh and robin, we are friends already, but i don't think he could be any more comfortable!! lol.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:10 AM on Oct. 17, 2008

  • oh and women can make the first move without looking like a slut! it's not like i was going to invite him to my bed.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:11 AM on Oct. 17, 2008

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