When i married my husband, i moved in to a house that he lived in, one day as i was going through some books, i found a diary like book with some strange notes, i asked him what those notes are and he said, oh that a secret code that i use when iam writting stuff that are very private. i begged him to tell me, but he refused, and i let it go. now once in a while, he will write a to do list and like this.." pay the bill, cal mr x, adstvw noytrg, .." now what is this man hiding??? why is he writting things that i dont understand and refuses to share them with me, do u think i should just let it go? what should i do??? am dying of curiosity..Answer Question
Answer by Orionsgirl at 6:19 PM on Sep. 14, 2010
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Answer by skittles1108 at 6:25 PM on Sep. 14, 2010
What in the hell does he need . That he has to keep it secret from you. On top of that leave it lieing around so you can see it. I would tell him to knock it off, with all the secret codes. You two are not supose to be hiding things from each other. I would be wondering what he is hiding for me. I would belooking through everything.
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