I absoutely love my SO and honesty our relationship is better than its ever been. But he gets upset sometimes and tells me that he can't live with me being who I am. I tend to easily fall into insecurities. Last night I woke up at 2 am and just blurted out "You don't like me, do you?" He got pissed and said he was tired of me, couldn't live with me, and I needed to learn to take care of myself. It was quite painful. And he refused to care. I am a grown woman and I know that he can do what he wants and I should respect his space. I just don't understand why he can be so mean. Today he says he loves me and it will be alright. I just wonder if he really means all he says and just patches things up to stay together. I'd leave him in a heartbeat if I believe he meant the things he said. What do I believe?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:41 PM on Sep. 14, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by mommy11260 at 7:40 PM on Sep. 14, 2010
My SO does the same things. He can be so ungodly hateful that I literally just cry like are you serious right now. But then after he calms down and loves me and cant live without me. Also pulls the I am leaving you shit but if i took anything he said seriously we would of been over a long long time ago. He is a red head with freckles so I think thats normal and I am German Irish and Italian so yeah I'm mean as well.
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