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why do some father cheat when your pregnant or after you have the child?

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Asked by ashley2120 at 2:35 PM on Jul. 1, 2008 in Relationships

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  • Perhaps some of the reason could be lack of sex drive on the womans part? Can't get it at home, will get it elswhere mentality. Or that men are Dog's. If they cheet and are in a committed relationship or married, it is just wrong in my opinion.

    Answer by vbruno at 2:57 PM on Jul. 1, 2008

  • Probably because the pregnancy wasn't planned, you aren't married, and he does not really want the responsibility so he cheats. I'd leave before you get an STD or he gets someone else pregnant.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:29 PM on Jul. 1, 2008

  • I think it is because the are insecure. Especially if this is a first child that maybe they were not totally ready for. You have to understand men as a whole are terribly selfish creatures. If this is a first child, now he has to share you and let's face it the baby demands so much of your time. Could be that he is feeling left out. Even when your pregnant it's all about you and the up coming bundle of joy. Men need there ego's stroked to feel important. Hope this helps you some!!

    Answer by RaynesMommy106 at 3:31 PM on Jul. 1, 2008

  • maybe because they are scum, and very un-understanding!

    Answer by dannersmell at 4:22 PM on Jul. 1, 2008

  • Because they are dogs!

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:04 PM on Jul. 1, 2008

  • They feel they are not getting the attention from you like they did before you got pregnant and had the baby.... Men are BIG BABIES, they need alot of attention!!!!

    Answer by KimsCandleHouse at 7:45 PM on Jul. 1, 2008

  • Because you and or the baby are getting most of the attention. It has to do with sroking their egos, more so then having sex. I took up a class on this and it has nothing to do with not having sex. That is what some woman want to think when they hit on your man. For now forget about your feelings and put him first. Do something he's been wanting. Do something that yo haven't in awhile, or did when you were dating.

    Trust me, if you don't he will tell the next female thinking she an ear and shoulder and she will think you aren't giving him any sex and will provide that for him. They tend to make them think the wife isn't doing her job. Get his attention NOW if you are noticing a difference in im lately.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:00 PM on Jul. 1, 2008

  • men are pigs.

    Answer by princezzmommie at 1:40 AM on Jul. 2, 2008

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