I feel so stupid bringing this up but last night my dh and I got into an argument and to top it off he wasn't getting any either so the argument led to that. If he would talk to me like a human being we probably wouldn't have start the yelling but damn I hate when he yells it does not help anything he is always bitching about stuff not getting done but when he is at home off from work he wants me to put a hold on stuff and do stuff with him. I hate that he makes me feel that the house needs to be spotless since I am home allday but I feel like I do the same thing over and over and it never gets done he makes me feels like I am suppose to clean something right when it happens. I just want him to shut the he'll up and go with it he knew I was no good housekeeper or a cook but hey I have co e along way. I am no SUPERWOMAN I can only do what I can n I tell him this n we argue about it again it is gettin old. No plans on leaving.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:17 AM on Sep. 15, 2010 in Relationships
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I think every single girlfriend i have who is a SAHM at some point gets bitched at by their husband about housekeeping. Same old argument. The man works all day, so he shouldn't have to care for the kids or clean when he gets home. But, since the woman is home all day "not working" (like being a mom is not a hard, back breaking job) she should do all the housework AND care for the kids. It drives me nuts! My DH is a neat freak & if i don't clean, he will clean when he comes home from work. He will not bitch about it at all. BUT, i feel really guilty sometimes that I've been home all day & then he comes home from work & cleans. So, out of guilt (lol) i try my best to keep the house clean because i would feel like a bad wife if my DH paid all the bills AND kept the house clean. DD is 9, she cleans up after herself now, thank god. Cleaning can be very monotonous. But it feels so good after it's done!
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