I have my heart set on breast feeding my son. When we were in the hospital I was able to get him to latch on occasion, but between him being a big baby and hard to poistion and it being painful the latch wouldnt last very long. We also found that my nipple is too short and fat for him to comfortable latch to. After the first night home, I started to use the pump. He took to the bottle like it was the most natural thing. I continue to pump and have been getting enough for him. I have been told that to make sure that I continue to produce enough that I should try to nurse him from the breast from time to time. He wont have it. The second my bare boob comes near his face he starts crying and pushing it away. I am worried that my milk supply will either not increase as he needs it, or dry up. Any suggestions?Answer Question
Answer by beckie66 at 11:32 AM on Sep. 15, 2010
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Answer by KME3 at 12:14 PM on Sep. 15, 2010
You need to decide if you want to breastfeed or bottle feed. Pumping and bottle feeding is very very difficult. To keep up your supply in the early months it is important for most mothers to pump every 2-3 hours around the clock. That means setting the alarm and getting up at night and pumping. Your baby will also be waking at night and you will be having to bottle feed. I could never do it.
Babies do not breastfeed on the end of nipples and it doesn't matter what they look like. The baby has to have a wide open mouth and when you watch a well latched baby or see pictures you can tell it doesn't matter at all what that end of the nipple is like. You can get your baby to breastfeed. It may take a few days or a week but it is soooo much better than pumping for a year or the recommended 2 years! La Leche League will help.
Answer by Gailll at 12:36 PM on Sep. 15, 2010
Here is a video that may be helpful. Notice how wide open the baby's mouth is. You want to wait until the baby's mouth is open very wide and then bring the baby to the breast by moving baby with the arm that is holding him. It's called rapid arm movement (RAM).
http://www.kellymom.com/ is an excellent breastfeeding website owned by a LLL Leader lactation consultant. The is info on increasing your supply and many links.
Answer by Gailll at 12:47 PM on Sep. 15, 2010
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