i love my man but it not the same love i look at him and just look away and plus he hasnt done any thing for me and the baby. what do you think about this im married to him about still living with my parents, i mean he did find a appartment but he got us kick out. i cant look at him the same way he done so many thing that just made me lose the love and respect. I just dont know what to do. my heart is broken and now i live for MY daught. I need advice pleaseAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:09 PM on Oct. 17, 2008 in Relationships
This is a question that only you can really answer, and I bet in your heart you already have the answer. When there is a child involved what is most important is the welfare of that child. You need to seriously consider everything before making any decisions. Is he showing you and his child that he is trying to be responsible and working towards a future for you? Does he respect you, is he trying to work and take care of you and the baby? Does he spend time with you? I know it's not easy, but if he's not, you need to sit him down and have a serious conversation with him. If you see that he's not willing to try, you need to consider cutting him loose. He will be responsible for child support, I don't know a great deal about that, but you can make it. Good luck to you, you and your baby will be in my prayers.
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