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what are some good tips to feel sexy again?

give me tips on how to feel va va voom again after separating from my husband... i feel pretty blank and bland even tho i am extremely attractive, i havent been looking liek myself or feeling hot wiht al lthis stress and care. thanks girrrrls... i used ot be so stylish and sprign in my step. i know i shoudl do my yoga more and put on my makeup liek i used top love to, and take a bath, yadda tell me more


Asked by silverelf at 8:50 PM on Sep. 15, 2010 in Beauty & Style

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  • When my bf and I broke up in May (we are very recently back together though) I went through a period of pretty much "not caring"... a very short period though! I decided to be proactive about taking care of myself and I thought that if I put in the energy to love myself, even if love didn't find me, it wouldn't really matter, as long as I love me!
    I got my teeth cleaned at the dentist and then a few days later I had them whitened at Brite Smiles. I got my hair done (a 3 phase color and an awesome "sexy bedroom hair" haircut) and bought a couple of new outfits. I also forced myself to "paint the town red" on the weekends with my friends.... nothing is better for a girl's ego than getting hit on ALOT!!! LOL! Btw... my bf and I have quite a few friends in common... he heard about how great I was doing and how I was out and about as if nothing happened...he started calling and texting again REALLY quickly!!!
    Good luck Silver!!!

    Answer by FeelinYummy at 9:02 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • Get ur hair did, shave ur legs have sum me time and buy a sexy dress and go dancing!!!!!! Enjoy Life!!!! Have fun ; )

    Answer by MaineMomAh2 at 8:56 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • Start with sexy underware. Even if you wear it under sweats. Its amzing what it can do for a girls self-esteem and sex appeal, even if you are the only one who knows.Try it. Oh, sleep in something slinky too.

    Answer by wellnessgirl at 9:04 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • Maybe put on some sexy underthings under your clothes. Perhaps something silk.

    Answer by Bugbait at 8:57 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • those are good you guys.

    Comment by silverelf (original poster) at 8:59 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • Do your hair, make up, u dont have to go out unless u want to, but try on some cute outfits in front of the mirror, and dont stop till u remember how pretty u are! and text or call a friend girl or guy, u dont have to do anything more than just talk, but thats what i did after I left my ex!

    Answer by sarahlu at 8:59 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • I always wear sexy underwear.


    Answer by beeky at 9:08 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • ok cool!! YOU ARE RIGHT.

    Comment by silverelf (original poster) at 9:16 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • Go get your hair done. Get a facial and have your makeup done. You can get all the stuff done for pretty cheap if you go to a beauty school

    Answer by noahsmommy12908 at 10:13 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • thats a great idea about the beauty school!

    Comment by silverelf (original poster) at 10:16 PM on Sep. 15, 2010