What do you do when you get snapped at whe your SO is at work and he is really stressed?

Bite your tongue till they get home, and they say, not meanly, that they hurt your feelings when they said, "X". and drop it. Don't expound on and on.

i bite my tongue at first. if he is upset and i say something it somehow makes things worse. i wait until he has calmed down and talk to him about it.

I work a stressfull job too. If he wants to snap at me, I will let it go at that time, but you can bet your sweet bottom he will hear about it later. Especially since I get the added job of coming home and taking care of the kids and making and cleaning up supper and taking care of the dog.

i do my best not to call my hubby at work.

I let it go. It doesn't bother me.

Let it, I do not bring it up at all.

i say okay and hang up the phone,he usually texts me back and says sorry,he used to not do that much,but hes gotten better at apologizing.

Wait til he gets home, give him a couple of minutes to destress. And then I tell him, that I didnt mean to interrupt/stress/be a pain in the butt BUT what he did hurt my feelings and I am still hurt. Normally when my so does that he calls me about 5 mins later to appologize and explain that he was dealing with the moron in front of him and didnt mean to take it out on me.

i snap back an tell him i aint the one that did it...