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How innocent would it be for a 20 year old guy to be talking to my dd, (age 12), on facebook?

He is a college student who has a public profile. And I contacted his listed girlfriend to explain to her I want it to stop. Ohh... my dd is 12.


Asked by tryin2BGOOD at 11:43 PM on Sep. 15, 2010 in Tweens (9-12)

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  • Block him from her page, a 20 yr old has no business talking to a 12 yr old unless he's family.
    I monitor all my children's friends and block those that I feel shouldn't be on their FB, and I go through periodically and delete friends off their pages as well.

    Answer by blessedwboysx3 at 1:43 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • That is why 12yr olds do not belong on FB and why FB has set guidelines that automatically make a teenagers page private, unless of course she lied about her age when she opened her account, in which case he probably has no idea she is 12

    Answer by Maureen-MD at 11:44 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • I would keep her off the computer!!!! Block the SOB and report him! He's a perv!

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 11:44 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • I would put a stop to that ASAP. Today you have to see who these kids are talking to. I would not take this lightly at all.

    Answer by sta517 at 11:46 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • id cancel her fb account , this is why kidsshould have no business having social sites because of pervs like those.

    Answer by gabby06 at 11:51 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • Unless he is a relative...then thats weird and disgusting! what could a 20 year old have in common with a 12 year old just to "talk" no no no get his ass away from her

    Answer by PerfectLove910 at 11:45 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • I agree that it is inapriopriate, and that it needs to stop, but why not just go on and un friend him from your daughters page, and maybe ground her from facebook for a while so she can learn a lesson.

    Answer by -LovingMamma- at 11:46 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • well, he might not know her age, because she had to lie about it to make her profile. you have to be at least 13 now. i miss the days where you had to be in college. she needs to delete her profile. 12 year olds have no business on social networking sites.

    Answer by erinwhitt at 11:50 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • What?!?! Is this a trick question? Of course it is NOT okay!

    Answer by mom2twingirl797 at 11:51 PM on Sep. 15, 2010

  • oh hell no! it is absolutely not ok! i would cancel that account.

    Answer by jennifer588 at 11:53 PM on Sep. 15, 2010