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am i a good mom

i do what i can for my kids when i can and the kids always have what thay need thay never go with out when we got money there my life n the apples of my eyes i would die for my kids so thay could live a good life.

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momnwife10

Asked by momnwife10 at 1:54 AM on Sep. 16, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • Yes.

    It would be better for your kids if you'd consider living for them instead of dying for them... it matters more that you're there for them when they need you, the way they need you.

    You are a good enough mom.
    LindaClement

    Answer by LindaClement at 1:58 AM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • Why you doubt that you were?

    Do you love your kids? Do they have a safe roof over their heads? Food in their tummies? Clean clothes and shoes? If yes, then of course you are a good mom. Parenting is probably the HARDEST job in the world..you get no sick days, paid vacations.just work, work, work,...but thats not ness. a bad thing...

    provide for your children and love them unconditionally, when they are old enough to understand they will love and respect you to the highest degree!!
    JuLiAnSmOmMy317

    Answer by JuLiAnSmOmMy317 at 2:15 AM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • yea.
    FreeSpriT4eva

    Answer by FreeSpriT4eva at 2:41 AM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • Yes.

    Don't be so hard on yourself
    whoreallycares

    Answer by whoreallycares at 3:41 AM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • Do they seem happy kids to you?
    BeachMom81

    Answer by BeachMom81 at 6:58 AM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • i think you are a good mon but maybe you are being a bit hard on yourself - try being there all the time for your kids, even when you don't have any money - your kids don't love you for the money that you have - and why not live for your kids instead of dying for them - i think you will be a happier mom that way - good luck to you - i know you have a loving heart and that you love your kids.
    kaysimon132461

    Answer by kaysimon132461 at 7:03 AM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • it sounds like it. Why do you care if other women you don't know think you are? What matters is if YOU think you are a good mom :)
    Wrtngfantasymom

    Answer by Wrtngfantasymom at 9:23 AM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • It sounds like it to me. Why would you think otherwise? Sounds like YOU need to feel like you are a good mom. Everyone else already knows it.
    PhoenixFire

    Answer by PhoenixFire at 11:29 AM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • Yes. Your kids are loved and provided for. Don't doubt yourself. Your doing everything you can to give them everything every day.
    soccerfanatic14

    Answer by soccerfanatic14 at 2:11 AM on Sep. 17, 2010

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