I am a plus size girl, I have been for years. But I feel immense pressure from my family to lose weight. I do try, but it seems like I get going great and something happens and I am derailed and it takes a lot for me to start again.
I know my mother is disappointed because she is little and fashionable and then she has me for a daughter, who is kind of tomboyish, not interested in the clothes she thinks I should be, I don't wear make up and I am fat.
I am not insecure or self conscious about my weight, I just feel like I am disapointing her b/c she has 4 kids and I am the only girl, and probably not the girl she imaged having.
I get so sick of the comments about how my husband would appreciate it if I would dress up more (he doesn't care, loves me as I am) and now that my son is in school, she always says that I should look more like the other moms.
Help, or am I worried about nothing.
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