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Why do I feel so lonely? adult content

Me and my DF have been together for 10 months and he is in the Marine Corp. We live 1 hour and 1/2 away from eachother and we only see eachother on the weekends. He is deploying in November and he has been getting very busy at work and we hardly talk and when I get upset or even if I just want to talk to him about something he says "Fuck Amber!! I cant handle this shit right now" I understand hes at work and hes busy but its like he doesnt even make time to talk to me when he gets off work.

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noahsmommy12908

Asked by noahsmommy12908 at 3:46 PM on Sep. 16, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Thats shitty of him to do.. You two are in this together.. he's not doing it alone.
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 3:47 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • I always tell him " Im so sorry that we have a relationship and we both have to deal with our problems" (sarcasm)
    noahsmommy12908

    Comment by noahsmommy12908 (original poster) at 3:48 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • It sounds like you need to find a man that you can be with and is available for you. It would be a good time to break it off since he is being deployed.

    Gailll

    Answer by Gailll at 3:52 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • It sounds like he is scared!!!!!!
    35yoamom

    Answer by 35yoamom at 3:55 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • When we are together on the weekends everything is perfect and I love him and I dont want to leave him
    noahsmommy12908

    Comment by noahsmommy12908 (original poster) at 3:55 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • What do you mean? 35yoamom
    noahsmommy12908

    Comment by noahsmommy12908 (original poster) at 3:56 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • Yeah maybe his fear of leaving in November is making him act strange to you.
    cloverlover24

    Answer by cloverlover24 at 3:58 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • I would realize that he is stressed out and give him a break.. I might even ask him if he is alright or if there was anything I could do to help him..
    Ren_Ren

    Answer by Ren_Ren at 6:28 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • Is he maybe trying to get you to break up with him before he gets deployed?

    martat

    Answer by martat at 10:11 AM on Sep. 17, 2010

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