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2 Bumps

plan on leavng his flithy @&&

do I ...

go to my moms, hour away=new school, will not see her father much, nor her sister and brother

or

be broke and stay close by= can still see "him" and her siblings, but i will not have emotional support of some family and friends

child is three
what do I consider when starting a new life

 
fiatpax

Asked by fiatpax at 4:05 PM on Sep. 16, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (9)
  • Go where you have support. If he wants to see his daughter, he'll make it a point to see her...but right now, the concern should be working on making sure you are ok...you're child will be fine as long as you have the support she needs in her life...
    mom2mybabes

    Answer by mom2mybabes at 4:59 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • Go to your moms. I'm assuming the brother & sister are his kids and not yours. Start a new life.

    Gailll

    Answer by Gailll at 4:08 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • The better thw two of you are provided for until you get on your feet, the better the long term outcome.
    ObbyDobbie

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 4:08 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • I say go to your moms. You need the support as much as possible.
    JacobsMommy05

    Answer by JacobsMommy05 at 4:14 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • Fathers often stop seeing their kids much when they don't have a wife/SO/girlfriend.

    Gailll

    Answer by Gailll at 4:22 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • How do you feel about her not seeing her siblings?
    noahsmommy12908

    Answer by noahsmommy12908 at 4:08 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • Go to your moms, so you will have the support you need.
    PoisonousBlonde

    Answer by PoisonousBlonde at 4:28 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • go to your moms. I am glad you are getting out of your situation. You are doing your dd a favor. I have read your posts a few times. I left with my dd when she was 3 1/2 and she is doing great. At your moms you can fully care for your childs needs. She will need to see her dad but mostly she needs her needs met and you healthy and happy.
    ria7

    Answer by ria7 at 4:33 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • i am sad about family breaking up
    have tryed everything i can think of, but he does not seem to care, i think when we are gone-he will only have his older kids 50% of time-he will be dad and the other 50% he will be living the free and single life-doing God only knows
    so sad my daughter will not be around her family, but not much i can do about it
    her brother 9140 will be very hurt
    her sister 910) will most likely not care (sorry but true, she just never has bonded at all with her, when her friends come to house, her friends play with my three yr old, but her own sister ignores her
    fiatpax

    Comment by fiatpax (original poster) at 4:12 PM on Sep. 16, 2010