I've come to realize my husband is emotionally abusive. We've been married for 4 years, we have young children together and I am fully spent. I really have nothing left to give and it's even affecting my mothering. My attitude about life is negative. I no longer problem solve, but let my problems overwhelm me from the start. I feel as though I can't muster anything else to give to our relationship, and like I said...that feeling is creeping up into my role as a mother to our children.
My husband is in denial and to be honest I don't know if there is a way of coming back out of this while i'm in this marriage. The weight seems to heavy to bare right now.
Has anyone been through this? Picked themselves back up and stayed in a marriage? Has your husband changed?.....
No offence, but please, if you have never been through this situation don't speculate on what I "should" do....I need some first hand advice. Thank you!
Asked by Anonymous at 4:24 PM on Sep. 16, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by admckenzie at 4:31 PM on Sep. 16, 2010
Yes you say he is in denial but you have to take care of yourself and let me tell you the more you wait the harder it will be first start with yourself and find yourself someone to talk to after take up a hobby that promotes you and builds yourself up do not let things get far out of control. start caring for yourself and let him know right away when its happening I have to do this now. Say hey i think you need to know your wrong or hey ouch that hurts. Take care of yourself and do not let him get the best of you. GL Momma
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