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Are there any men you know who want to be there for you when your feeling sad?

I"m pregnant and feeling blue. My dh treats me like i'm crazy and somethings wrong with me & leave me alone. I'm raging w hormones!! why cant men understand its hard sometimes? I dont want to be alone when i'm sad.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:58 PM on Oct. 17, 2008 in Pregnancy

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  • IM GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING!!!!!
    I HATE IT!!!!!!!!
    HES ALWAYS SAYING IM TO EMOTIONAL,IN MY HEAD IM LIKE WTF IM PREGNANT!
    AND HE DOESNT EVEN SEEM TO CARE ABOUT ANYTHING ANYMORE.
    IT MAKES ME SAD =(
    IM 22 WEEKS AND I BET HE DOESNT EVEN KNOW HOW FAR ALONG I AM.
    HE IGNORES ME TO IT FEELS LIKE..
    I JUST NEED HIM BACK HOW HE WAS =(
    misty91

    Answer by misty91 at 12:05 AM on Oct. 18, 2008

  • AND HE DOESNT DO ANYTHING WHEN I CRY =(
    JUST STARTS SAYING DUMB THINGS LIKE HE NEVER USED TO
    misty91

    Answer by misty91 at 12:06 AM on Oct. 18, 2008

  • they should force men to go to " how to understand your pregnant wife class" they really just dont get it and they make it harder on us. I"m sorry. I hope you feel better...
    peppermintkathy

    Answer by peppermintkathy at 12:10 AM on Oct. 18, 2008

  • My hubby has been there through all my hormonal fits. I'm so glad he understands cuz when I'm upset he's all I want. His cousin Houston also is always there for me when I'm sad. He's so sweet!
    MarlyeGirl

    Answer by MarlyeGirl at 12:13 AM on Oct. 18, 2008

  • men will never really get it, i mean how can they, they can't imagine what it's like to go there.
    just i have learned not to just expect them to step up, you have to tell them when you want them
    to step up and then talk to them and let them know how you feel.....they can surprise you at times.
    they just need directions.
    happysenorita

    Answer by happysenorita at 12:16 AM on Oct. 18, 2008

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