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How do you know if your SO is emotionally abusive?

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noahsmommy12908

Asked by noahsmommy12908 at 10:05 PM on Sep. 16, 2010 in Relationships

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  • When your walking on egg shells and constantly feel bad all of the time.
    pinkdragon36

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 10:06 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • Does he call you names, put you down, manipulate you, make you feel bad or question yourelf, try to isolate you....
    skittles1108

    Answer by skittles1108 at 10:07 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • He makes me feel bad when we fight all the time even if its him who did something wrong. He cusses at me. He brings up my past
    noahsmommy12908

    Comment by noahsmommy12908 (original poster) at 10:09 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • I will say when he gets mad at almost everything
    missgwen

    Answer by missgwen at 10:09 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • He does
    noahsmommy12908

    Comment by noahsmommy12908 (original poster) at 10:10 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • when everything is your fault, when things are going well and he starts a fight fo rno reason when he tries to control you just to name a few
    ZOOMZOOMCANTOR

    Answer by ZOOMZOOMCANTOR at 10:11 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!
    noahsmommy12908

    Comment by noahsmommy12908 (original poster) at 10:14 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • u need to leave him, while u still can, tell him u cant handle the fighting any more
    navywifemomkoch

    Answer by navywifemomkoch at 10:15 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • my dh was very emotional abusive but he is getting help for us
    navywifemomkoch

    Answer by navywifemomkoch at 10:16 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

  • If you feel depressed and feel that no matter how hard you try that it just isn't good enough...that is emotional abuse. If you dread meeting people and avoid social siuations because you think nobody would want to know you----you have been emotionally abused. If he picks fights with no reason, just out of the blue,then storms out, he is abusing you and maybe leading a secret life outside of the home. I could go on but you must be gettng the picture. I speak fro experience. He was my DH and now he is my EX. If he makes you feel bad and intimdated , ask him to stop and suggest counseling for both of you. If he won't stop and won't admit he is wrong, maybe he isn't worth your time.
    gertie41

    Answer by gertie41 at 10:16 PM on Sep. 16, 2010

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