What you need to figure out is why you are mistrustful. Has he ever given you reason to be? If not, then you need to explore why you feel the way you do...and hopefully in understanding comes peace. When you find yourself doubting him, stop and ask yourself if there is any legitimate reason to, and if not, then force yourself to let it go. Remind yourself how much you love him and why, and tell yourself that he doesn't deserve to be treated that way. It's not easy, but it can be done. Trust, believe it or not, is a willful choice...we choose to give our trust to someone. It is a gift. But you have to give it with your whole heart and if you can't, you need to find out why.
at 2:22 PM on Oct. 18, 2008