My hubby was deployed this past year. I finally came to the realization as to why some, not all, women cheat when their hubby's are deployed. I think, and this is MY opinion, that they get lonely. They aren't getting the attention they need, and even though they KNOW it's cause hubby is deployed, it just doesn't click, for some deranged reason. They get selfish. They need attention, and seek it. I did get lonely when he was gone, despite the fact we talked every day. I didn't have him beside me at night. I didn't have him physically there with me when medical probs came up, when big probs with the kids came up. It would have been nice to have someone there. I could have had someone there had I chose to. But I didn't. In the long run, it would have made things worse. And that's what the cheating women don't consider. That it may feel good NOW, but in the long run, it won't. They can't stick it out. I did, plenty do. Cont..
at 11:33 AM on Sep. 17, 2010