If you read through some of these questions you'll come across some that involve what appears to be "no brainers". For example there is one that asks what to do if the fiancé wants her but not her child....... the hubby that is endangering the life of the wife and unborn child.... What does that say about women (not all of us, but a large percentage unfortunately) when we are programmed to accept men's bs regardless of the costs to us?
Answer by shrtsassycutie at 11:18 AM on Oct. 18, 2008
Answer by myboogiewoogie at 9:21 AM on Oct. 18, 2008
Answer by Steph319 at 9:23 AM on Oct. 18, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 9:33 AM on Oct. 18, 2008
Answer by kscmbz at 9:36 AM on Oct. 18, 2008
It just amazed me, I mean I have read so many posts regarding one form of abuse or another, but some of them are mind blowing. It is obvious with some of them as kscmbz stated, are phony, but there are others that make me just stare in astonishment at my computer screen. Why is it that as women, we have such a difficult time accepting the fact that we do deserve respect and decency from our other halves?
Answer by hibicent at 9:51 AM on Oct. 18, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 10:39 AM on Oct. 18, 2008
While I don't agree with it by any means, nor do I excuse it, we all must keep in mind the way people are raised and that playing a HUGE factor in the beliefs and acceptance as adults. If mom allowed dad to abuse her (mentally, physically, emotionally, sexually) and no one ever blinked twice, the children grow up to believe that's the norm. And when they ask the questions about what to do, I think they feel it's as simple as something THEY can change and the idea of leaving the loser, piece-of-shit is nowhere in their spectrum of options. JMO
Answer by mamajones09 at 10:59 AM on Oct. 18, 2008
Answer by MamaCharity at 11:00 AM on Oct. 18, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 11:10 AM on Oct. 18, 2008